Bringing Home a New Pet When You Have Children

I tend to write about my current experiences. I like to elaborate on current problems that I maybe having and discuss them so that my successes and failures may help others. Recently, I added a shih tzu puppy to my family. Being a pet person at heart I wanted to have a little furry pal to snuggle with while working or watching a movie. Having three children and a home to manage keeps me fairly busy as it is. If you are like me, and despite your busy case load from Florida Tech Online and your family, you still would like to add a four-legged friend to your household, then here is some advice for a smooth introduction.

Tip 1: Choose your pet wisely.
 This may seem like a no brainer, but it's easy to get caught up in the cute faces and needy eyes and forget what you are capable of handling. For instance, it's easy to fall in love with the gentle eyes of a Great Dane, but not easy to keep them in an apartment. Before pet hunting, make a list (both you and your partner) of desired traits. This will help keep you on track.

Tip 2: Be careful when adopting.
This maybe a controversial tip to some people, but with young children especially adopting an adult dog can be dangerous. If you are a single person, adopting is wonderful for you and the animal. When you have children, however, you can never be too careful. You have no way of knowing exactly what that dog has been subjected to. It's better to be safe than sorry.

Tip 3: Beware of breeders.
In many cases when adopting or purchasing a dog money is an issue. It's human nature to try and find a deal or just a reasonable price on everything including pets. The truth is you get what you pay for. There are many people out there irresponsibly breeding animals to make a buck. If at all possible go to the person's home and meet the parents. You can usually tell what kind of person you are dealing with just by seeing their home.

Tip 4: It's okay to say no.
In the event that you are adopting or purchasing from a home, never meet the person with the intention of taking that animal home. Never allow yourself to be pressured in to taking an animal home with you that you are not in love with. Caring for a pet is a life long commitment. It's okay to visit a pet and not take it home.


Tip 7: Never buy a pet as a present.
This tip main seem odd, but allow me to clarify. Buying a pet for a birthday present or Christmas present is not a good idea. If you would like to give a loved one a pet, I would recommend having them assist you in the adoption process. Owning a pet is a very personal commitment. You would not marry a person that you just met because they are cute. Holidays and birthdays are also very busy times and pets can be neglected. It's best to add a new addition when your home is calm and as uncomplicated as possible.


Tip 5: Introduce the animal slowly.
Once you've made your decision it's time to bring your new fur baby home and introduce them to your family. When dealing with children, it's best to introduce the animal gradually. Remember, this transition is going to be extremely stressful on your new pet. Be sure that you give them the space to calm down and be alone. It's easy during such an exciting time, to give your new animal too much attention.

Tip 6: Create a quiet area for your new pet.
It's important for your four-legged friend to feel secure. When dealing with a cat, allow them to find a quiet place under a piece of furniture or in a closet where they can retreat. When introducing a dog or puppy, a crate can be helpful.

Making the decision to add an animal to your family is exciting. It brings with it the possibility of a life long relationship with a new family member. Following these simple tips will make this transition easier, and more enjoyable. A pet is an important friend for your children and can help them learn responsibility. If they are old enough, allow them to help you in the decision making process as well as the training. This participation with strengthen the family bond.